Women
participate in book clubs more than men. But why is this? For many years,
women weren’t encouraged to read or to
engage in learning, so men had control over the educational and literary
establishments. Men were the librarians in early western libraries and were
those one could find making use of those institutions and taking part in
reading groups. But then the pendulum swung the other
way in the early 20th century, with most public library book clubs becoming overwhelmingly female or female-led
and the majority of librarians being women. There are three
possible reasons why men do not engage in book clubs as much as women: men do not talk as much as women, nor are modern men public
“sharers” of their feelings; they don’t want to read the kinds of books usually
found in library book clubs; and they are mocked when they try. Libraries can
help with each of these issues to encourage more men to engage in book clubs or
groups and to make these groups as welcoming and as open as possible.
There is a belief that women talk an average of three times as much as men do in a day, but it's a myth. Men men may believe this and are thus less inclined to join a book club because of all the talking that will be done by women. Men are not as comfortable sharing their feelings about topics, even books, with others, but are more comfortable doing so around other men. Men also are interested in different types of books than women and find the types of books most book clubs choose to read not interesting. This doesn't mean they aren't interested in literature or literary books, but that the focus of the books are different. The biggest problem seems to be the reaction to men who are in book clubs; the reaction is either they are gay for being in a book club or the type of book club is a threat to women or women's clubs. The shocking news in a 2016 article that men also have book clubs was met with ridicule and concern about how men's book clubs are poisonous, apparently to the existence of women's clubs.
So what can we as librarians and libraries do? We
can help facilitate book clubs of a different nature that are geared toward
men, without making them off-limits to women. Patrons will naturally gravitate
to book clubs, groups, and other events where they feel comfortable, wanted, safe, and in which they are interested. If we start and encourage men’s book clubs or
book clubs that read material of interest to men and women choose not to
attend, we should be okay with that, just as we should be okay with men not
attending women-led or -dominated book clubs. This is the current state of book
clubs in libraries, in general, and there doesn’t seem to be an outreach to get
men to join women in their clubs. As public libraries, we can’t prevent women
from attending a “man’s book club,” any more than we can prevent a man from
attending a “woman’s book club,” but we can make more of an effort to attract
men to quasi-men only clubs. Men
need book clubs just as much as women and we as librarians should be interested
in getting the men of our communities reading and involved.
As you will see in my book club post next week I attended my local libraries book club. There were two men, an apparently there is a third that usually attends but was absent because of a health issue. They are all certain he will be back next month and hope that I come back to meet him as he really loves to dig in and discuss books. Besides myself there were two other regular attendees and then the librarian, who has just taken over the book club in the last 6 months. So whatever they are doing works for making it equally inviting to men and women.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you found a book club that had both men and women. The club I visited welcomed me as their first ever male attendee! The librarians I spoke to at our local libraries, at least, didn't know the exact makeup of the clubs, but surmised some of them were mainly female (esp. the Literary Ladies Club).
ReplyDeleteInteresting, I guess I never imagined that a library led book club would be so limited to male or female. Other book clubs that I participated in were usually teachers and friends and we did tend to be female only. Not that a guy wouldn't have been welcome, there were just few male teachers and spouses weren't interested.
ReplyDeleteMy husband tried to start a book club several years ago. It lasted about 2 months. Whenever the subject was broached about starting one, his group of friends all were excited and ready. But when the meetings became reality, they eventually backed out. At the time, I wasn't surprised because they were all much younger and more energetic so wanted to use that time for their various sports activities. This past October, one of his friends started a poetry reading "club" with tea and snack. They've had four meetings so far; two at his house and two at ours. Let's see how long this one lasts.
ReplyDeleteThis was a very interesting read! Recently, my church started a book club reading inspirational fiction and I hadn't really considered it until now, but everyone automatically assumed it was for the women. I am not sure any of our men even considered attending even though gender wasn't specified in the description. Book clubs can have so many benefits to both genders, so it is definitely important for libraries to market to both men and women regarding book clubs. Thanks for your insight!
ReplyDeleteHow interesting! This is definitely also a delve in to the psyche between both men and women and the approach of group activity. At our library, there is no "ban" of who can attend an event (unless it is age-restricted! Then there are adult, teen, and child events of the same nature to not exclude anyone from the same opportunity), but it goes without saying that the population often reflects each other. Topics and books that are sought after more by one group over the other may or may not be coincidence, but it's a fascinating topic for your paper. Very intriguing!
ReplyDeleteGreat post!
Sara
comments noted - the paper's grade can be found on canvas
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